Thursday, December 21, 2006

say what u want...............really??

hmmmmmmmmm..........

well there have been many situations where i just cant keep my mouth
shut and later think (actually repent.:( ) why the hell i said something like that....

there are numerous examples of that ::::

the one which just struck me today was what i had said the interviewers
of flex...here goes.......
so i was in the hall kind of thing just saying whatever first came to my mind as usual. the interview was really really long ,,u know there were times when i thought why these are people are even giving me any time to think.. ..but i guess u just never know when job calls ....
those ppl gave me a program .....
made me write the code ,,then just kept making me figure out ways to crash it,,ab batao how will anyone feel by destroying their own hand made house???
stilll ....i did that obviously i'm no bill gates( just a lame exp...)
and when my realllyyyyyyyy long interview came to an end i said to them

"thanx for bearing with me :( " ( u know i think i had really made that
kind of face there.........

now thankx to god i got the job but i had just blew all my chances with that sentence........



next::
in first sem when we had prac of the teacher i fear the most.....
(i fear him so much that i cant write his name ++ i actually change lanes
on seeing him ++ i still get shivers up and down my spine on mere mention of his name ++ even at present words are coming out pretty tough ))

so we had our first prac and that day was supposed to be first time we were supposed to get our files checked....
when the ordeal begun the first ones to feel the brunt of matter are our friends 1 2 3 ....what happened was we ppl had used pen on left side of prac files and somehow i thought he had just asked us to draw the figures with pencil not...

and when my turn came ....i just had no problem reminding him what i thought i had heard......and guess what??? i got the first scolding of my college life......god!!!!!!!!!
had i just opted to keep quiet and kept my head down things would have been so different....................
god knows what all i heard that day... he said im so and so and u are saying i dont remember what i had said?? what do u think u are??? blah blah blah blah blah.............
mummyyyyy that still scares me



next::
i have many- a- times offended ppl by saying something which i regret later
many of those things are just not worthy of mentioning
many i cant remember
and many i cant write :)


so is it that bad to have opinions???
do one really has to pay to voice their opinions??
is it bad to just say what u feel like the moment u feel like???
where should one draw the line hmmm????



well i guess no one can stop me from having opinions.....and i can assure u that i have many of those ,i have opinion on every damn topic and every damn person under the sun........that's y my resume says i'm over opinionated :-

and i wont say its bad to have opinions that's what a person is all about
having one's own mind yaar!!!

and 4 rest of the questions well figure them out on ur own!!!
i myself am :)



ab bas takliya ...............

6 comments:

Anonymous said...

hey its gud to ve opinions.....
but in my opinion according to certain situations.....we shud avoid expressin them,..specially in front of akdoo teachers who cant tolerate any1 arguing with them.......actually it depends frm person to person...sm can appreciate ur honesty whereas some can tk in a -ve way!!!

Anonymous said...

Hi sweetie
nice blog again :) my comment…hmmmm, its really not totally unbelievable that u actually said that there on the face of interviewer.. it sometimes does happen wen u get so much frightened (or may be frustrated actually sitting at ‘hot seat’ for so long n just facing those deadly enemies(questions) umpteen times without actually losing the count of time) that u just cant help but speak out ur mind n heart. U know I actually said this on the person’s face taking my interview for yahoo that I don’t remember c++ because we did it in first yr(tho we had done in 2nd)!! I was thinking y I had been sitting there wen I stand nowhere near their requirements!that interview finally went bust :(
next::
I seriously start laughing even today wen i’m reminded of that event.. hey not to offend u but I hope u too blv in this:u cry looking back at moments u enjoyed n laugh looking at moments wen u cried(or put urself in a terrible mess after committing a faux pas :)).that behavior of urs in addition to many other reactions u gave to us in first year had set a completely different picture of urs in our mind compared to wat we think of u today :)
next::
thnk god I had never been a victim of urs saying something mindlessly coz I’m not a kinda person who can forget such things easily :) so beware :P :D
next I wud say that in my opinion: no,its not at all bad to have opinions but yeah its truly dangerous to blurt them out the moment they come to ur mind without actually weighing ur words! In our country one has to pay the price to voice opinion but its we ppl only constituting the “gen next” that can change this. Isnt it? So sweetie, never stop ur “dimaagi ghode” from running but yeah do think before keeping them in front of other ppl esp when those ppl matter :)

now me ‘takliyasing’ u :))

Anonymous said...

again that was me 'ag'

thot i wud b first person bthis time to comment but alas :( late again.. but may i knw who was that? i guess magi or aanchu.. cant b nps.. baaki log to blog padhte hi ni.. hai na

Anonymous said...

yup true, v every1 has opinion abt ppl.. but u know these opinions change too fast...

i think voicin ur opinion lk dis( widout thinkin) is like lightining dat outbursts 4 a sec but damages more..

sooooooo think b4 u act lekin sometimes its really necessary to get ur feelings out otherwise d cold war continues esp bw friends

as of teachers i can only say jab wo itne saalo me nahi sudhre to hamare kuch kehne se kahan sudhrenge so its better to keep mouth shut in front of dem n remember its golden rule, hee hee

Unknown said...

wt to say
whole spectrum has already spread so much flowers :)
just thought to write a comment that me too read ur blog... hee hee

Unknown said...

i can't believe u havent posted anyth this year... :-o