So i've finally decided! actually have made my self believe that i have no sense whatsoever of judging people!
the reason !
well once again one of my judgements have gone completely wrong!
the person i had declared to be a hitler, had no grudges to announce
publically that he's totally pakau and whom i can't stand
turned out to be a pretty cool human being!
(b4 this leads 2 any speculations and controversies its a teacher
i'm talking bout !!)
that banda just gave me one of the most rocking morning sessions!
i really had a good time after a long time.
and this is not the first time!
around 2 yrs back i was totally shocked to hear a banda clear CAT!
though i thought him 2 be gud for nothing except cricket
and pranks he played on others!
(although i have no doubts whatsoever i owe a lot to him
4 inspiring me in a strange kind of way! the very idea of
great campus life was alluring enough!)
and...
remember some aunties uncles u never feel like talking 2!
and after some interaction they become kind of buddies.
i've got one aunt whom i really loathed simply cause she
did'nt followed any norms i thought existed, but when i started
talking to her it seems she's handling situations superbly!
a divorcee and a single mom she's a perfect example
of a lady holding her head high in this male dominated
world!
and my list can go on and on and on!
why can't we judge people is the question?
do people change or are we incompetent to make
judgements?
well i don't know...
i've just
given up the theory that "first impressions are last ones!"
sometimes i feel why can't we just see people and makeout
what they're like. but things don't work like that!
the intricacies of a human mind cannot be perceived
by human eyes!
and if u are a girl the matters are even worse!
let go of the fact that anyone else might get u right u might
urself might not be able to know urself !!!
the best thing is to have friends whom u can understand at
times and who in return understand u back !
maybe not in totality but a even small percentage is a welcome
phenomenon!
its really nice to be urself in front of such people!
u can say whatever whenever no questions asked!!!
so finally i will just say that don't be judgemental of
people whom u really don't know, take ur time .
sometimes its not that bad 'to not have an opinion
on something in life!
let every individual explore his /her own space
while u dwell in urs with the ones u care about!
mj..
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5 comments:
perceiving people is difficult
when sometimes they keep
changing they behave with you.
some people just look like they
are a different person altogether
in every second meeting.
hey mahi
nice to c u thinking all this.
yup u r absolutely rt, one shudnt judge anyone by the frst imprssn.
and i thought u r talking about the person whom evn i cant stand and turned out pretty cool:)
aanchal
hey mj,
yup its totally true dat 1st impressions arent d n shudnt b d last 1s. actually in 1st meetin ppl never open up n u dont get to know who dey r. n waise bhi never judje ny1 by looks coz looks r mischievin. wat matters is d heart. its humane to react nicely n badly at situations. it happens wid me too,smtimes i lk a person very much in d 1st meetin n i simply hate him in d 2nd 1 n in d 3rd i again lk him. i think its actually a see-saw up n down. :):)
n after u get to know d person u know dat every1 cant b totally good or totally bad. so just admire d good qualities n ignore d bad 1s n m telling u its a superb way of perceivin ppl. never make urself too rigid so as not to change ur views coz nothng is permanent here...
keep smilin :)
noops
i don't know what u're talking bout aanchi but u don't know
any of the people i've quoted in
this blog!!!
thx 4 pouring in ur thoughts
everyone!
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