The Story Of Perceptions!

So i've finally decided! actually have made my self believe that i have no sense whatsoever of judging people!

the reason !
well once again one of my judgements have gone completely wrong!
the person i had declared to be a hitler, had no grudges to announce
publically that he's totally pakau and whom i can't stand
turned out to be a pretty cool human being!
(b4 this leads 2 any speculations and controversies its a teacher
i'm talking bout !!)
that banda just gave me one of the most rocking morning sessions!
i really had a good time after a long time.


and this is not the first time!
around 2 yrs back i was totally shocked to hear a banda clear CAT!
though i thought him 2 be gud for nothing except cricket
and pranks he played on others!
(although i have no doubts whatsoever i owe a lot to him
4 inspiring me in a strange kind of way! the very idea of
great campus life was alluring enough!)


and...
remember some aunties uncles u never feel like talking 2!
and after some interaction they become kind of buddies.
i've got one aunt whom i really loathed simply cause she
did'nt followed any norms i thought existed, but when i started
talking to her it seems she's handling situations superbly!
a divorcee and a single mom she's a perfect example
of a lady holding her head high in this male dominated
world!

and my list can go on and on and on!

why can't we judge people is the question?
do people change or are we incompetent to make
judgements?
well i don't know...

i've just
given up the theory that "first impressions are last ones!"

sometimes i feel why can't we just see people and makeout
what they're like. but things don't work like that!
the intricacies of a human mind cannot be perceived
by human eyes!
and if u are a girl the matters are even worse!
let go of the fact that anyone else might get u right u might
urself might not be able to know urself !!!


the best thing is to have friends whom u can understand at
times and who in return understand u back !
maybe not in totality but a even small percentage is a welcome
phenomenon!

its really nice to be urself in front of such people!
u can say whatever whenever no questions asked!!!

so finally i will just say that don't be judgemental of
people whom u really don't know, take ur time .
sometimes its not that bad 'to not have an opinion
on something in life!
let every individual explore his /her own space
while u dwell in urs with the ones u care about!

mj..

Getting Confused!

people don't think that i'm
obsessed by word "getting" its just going
well with the title!

This is the time of utmost importance (once again!)
for our careers. Now at the verge of passing out our college
we are once again faced with 2 way street!!!

ONE
->one takes us to a job! which won't b a problem(if god forbids!!!)
this road has really large visibility range!
as u can see urself working 4 atleast 2 yrs.after that god knows.

->this road provides immediate satisfaction 2 many as one can
finally be econmically independent!

->but what after 2 yrs. do u want 2 b struck tothe same job or
????


TWO
->this is the road to knowledge.
its really foggy visibility range really low!

->this road takes u to more yrs of studying something with
which all are pretty much pissed off by now!

->but if u make a mark in here u will have more
financial security.(for dumboos this means big packages yaar!)


BUT BUT BUT
which road do i choose?
->well don't expect me to answer that 4 u! it has 2 be an
individual's decision.
no one decide 4 u yaar!

can i leave one completely?
->well here i can help! people i don't think u should ever
close any open door with ur own hands(don't take it literally ps)

given an oppurtunity u should never show it a backface,
never kill ur fate with ur own hands!!



and after all this crap!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

there's onething i fear the most in my life its TIME its the
only thing not in my hand hence i don't know much bout it!
though its said 2 b the cure of all bad things its always had
something unexpected 4 me throughout my lifetime!!

whenever i'm sure of smthing in life the new time brings with it
smthing completely unexpeced.
i'm not complaining i'm having a really blessed life(touch wood!),
but i really don't know what lies ahead its really foggy!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Getting Started!!

hey people!
im totally new 2 the world of blogging!
Though i was pretty happy for the fact that i knew what it was (while reading about it in sabeer bhatia's interview) i had no idea it had become so popular already!
that's the problem with me i think things are too complex and never give it a shot until i see someone else trying them out.( i know spectrum u always bug me for this!!)

chalo better late than never!!!

im engg student who loves everything about her life(touch wood!).
we are a group of seven friends who do weirdest things,
share secrets and laugh a lot (thanks to ns & party).
i'm starting blogging to have some thing fun to do in holidayz
lets see till where it goes!!!


mj..